Tantrums, meltdowns, and hissy fits can be a nightmare for parents. In this episode of The Lab, Daddy Clay and Daddy Brad tackle this important child behavior topic. Since we’re all about fairness here at DadLabs, we’ll first show kids some techniques for throwing a temper tantrum and getting the most of their meltdown, including the best locations for their hissy fit. We also speak with early parenting coach, Carrie Contey, PhD. to learn why temper tantrums happen, how child development factors into it, and what mom and dad can do to deal with them. The dads also weigh in with their thoughts and reveal what exactly they’re thinking when they see other parent’s children throwing a tantrum. DadLabs Ep. 563 is brought to you by BabyBjorn. Distributed by Tubemogul.
3 Easy Steps to Quickly Resolve Conflict and Repair the Broken Trust in Your Home, Classroom or Youth Group! Positive Conflict Resolution What is an Apology: I apologize I was wrong and will try never to do it again. Will you Forgive me? What is the Benefits of Forgiveness: Research says a forgiving victim lives 8 years longer than one who holds on to forgiveness. How Can I Make It Up to You: Apologies are empty and still leave the victim feeling they can not trust the person as much as they did before the person hurt them. So learn on this DVD or Download ways to quickly “Make it Up” to the person so they will trust you more than before they were hurt. If I did something mean I can do something nice for the victim. If I said something mean I can say 4 nice character or compliment their personality or talents. Bullying Program Reduced Bullying by 50% in your Home or School within 2 weeks. Learn how to teach Students how to Roll with Teasing or Name Calling: “Your an idiot” Response: “That’s the Best thing I heard all day.” Retain Families with this program. Schools have reported an increase in Retention of families of Victims and been able to Rehabilitate some of the Bullies. Reduce Tardies and Discipline Problems by 30% in the first week by having students greet all their classmates by the end of each week: “Good morning Sasha! It’s good to see you! I love your blouse.” Incorporate positive conflict resolution plan listed above: “I apologize for hitting you, I was wrong …
Changing a Child’s Behavior By Gwen Randall-Young, Psychologist “Don’t worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always watching you.” ~Robert Fulghum I work with many parents who struggle with trying to get their children to change undesirable behaviors. Often they have good strategies, but somehow the behaviors persist. Upon closer examination, they will often mention that they are not always consistent in their approach. It is not a question of whether the children understand the expectations or forget them, but rather that they consider the odds. Visit Gwen’s website www.gwen.ca to purchase CDs, MP3s, books, and to access hundreds of free articles. Gwen Randall-Young is a psychotherapist and author whose work bridges the worlds of psychology and spirit. Readers and clients have been transformed and uplifted by her soul centered approach. She has a unique blend of practical wisdom and intuitive insight. www.gwen.ca
Thomas Haller, The Parent Professor, shares a tip on how to get your child to stop whining.