I’m sure you’ve heard it said, “children are a gift from God.” But when you discover your children have bad behavior problems, do you feel their more a gift from Satan? Don’t get me wrong, I love my kids with all my heart but a lot of times I’m really embarrassed by their bad behaviors.

I get so discussed when they hit each other or other children, talk back to me (usually in front of my friends) or throw a temper tantrum in a crowded restaurant. I know kids don’t come with instruction manuals (if you know of one please let me know), but what are we as parents to do to control our children’s bad behavior?

First they have to know that they are loved and no matter what they do, you will always love them with all your heart. But they must also know that actions have consequences and sometimes those consequences may not be pleasant.

One thing I suggest you try is to deny them something you know will affect them the most if taken away. Find out what activity or item will bother them the most if they aren’t allowed to have for a while. If they like to watch television, tell them they can’t watch it for a day. If they love to play Playstation, take it away from them. If he has a favorite toy, don’t allow him to play with it.

Let him know the reason your taking away the privilege is a result of his bad behavior and that your very disappointed in his behavior. You may have to do this a few times before they get the message. Be ready to listen to a lot of crying and whining but be strong and hang in there. If you have children with bad behavior problems and you feel like your at the end of your rope, give this tactic a try. You could be on the right track to changing you and your children’s lives forever.