Comments on: Exterme Behaviour Problem in Child.? http://www.child-behaviour-problems.com/child-behaviour-problems/exterme-behaviour-problem-in-child All about child behaviour problems ... Fri, 10 Sep 2010 20:10:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: ketothemonkey http://www.child-behaviour-problems.com/child-behaviour-problems/exterme-behaviour-problem-in-child#comment-436 ketothemonkey Mon, 14 Jul 2008 15:14:11 +0000 http://www.child-behaviour-problems.com/child-behaviour-problems/exterme-behaviour-problem-in-child#comment-436 I have one boy who has always been hard to handle, not as extreme as what you describe but still very difficult. Psychologists never worked for my son because he would never open up and talk with them, the doctor's diagnosed him with ADHD and wanted him on meds. But when we try meds they made him a zombie. So I grit my teeth and started trying to figure out what punishments got to him the most. Spanking was a total waste, he would just laugh in my face. Time out worked partially for a little while. So I kept trying he had a few favorite toys and favorite activities. So whenever he acted out I would take away his favorite toys and not allow him to do his favorite activites. This was what worked. he wanted his stuff so much that he began to realize he could only have them if he behaved. Little by little I saw him behaving better more often. My son is now 17 and is a nearly straight A student. I couldn't be more proud of him. Over the years I did have to change the favorite items as he grew up so just because his match box cars work today doesn't mean they will work forever. Another thing to help with the temper tantrums is try ignoreing the child. many children do this for attention, if they don't get it then they will stop. Tell her next time he has a temper to walk out of the room or go outside and leave him, when no one is paying attention to him the tantrum is pointless.<br><b>References : </b><br> I have one boy who has always been hard to handle, not as extreme as what you describe but still very difficult.

Psychologists never worked for my son because he would never open up and talk with them, the doctor's diagnosed him with ADHD and wanted him on meds. But when we try meds they made him a zombie.

So I grit my teeth and started trying to figure out what punishments got to him the most. Spanking was a total waste, he would just laugh in my face. Time out worked partially for a little while. So I kept trying he had a few favorite toys and favorite activities. So whenever he acted out I would take away his favorite toys and not allow him to do his favorite activites. This was what worked. he wanted his stuff so much that he began to realize he could only have them if he behaved. Little by little I saw him behaving better more often.

My son is now 17 and is a nearly straight A student. I couldn't be more proud of him.

Over the years I did have to change the favorite items as he grew up so just because his match box cars work today doesn't mean they will work forever.

Another thing to help with the temper tantrums is try ignoreing the child. many children do this for attention, if they don't get it then they will stop. Tell her next time he has a temper to walk out of the room or go outside and leave him, when no one is paying attention to him the tantrum is pointless.
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]]> By: Marie C http://www.child-behaviour-problems.com/child-behaviour-problems/exterme-behaviour-problem-in-child#comment-435 Marie C Mon, 14 Jul 2008 11:13:12 +0000 http://www.child-behaviour-problems.com/child-behaviour-problems/exterme-behaviour-problem-in-child#comment-435 It is not normal for a 7-year-old to be having such explosive tantrums. Your friend needs to get a handle on this situation very quickly, because it will get worse (and more dangerous) when he gets older, and bigger. The pediatrician could have been right about the hearing issue. A friend of mine had a child with a moderate hearing loss, who used to throw terrible tantrums. The child could hear, but not as well as he should. He was extremely frustrated about "missing" a lot of what was going on around him. Eventually he was fitted for hearing aids. He is a different child today - happy, cooperative, and doing well in school. Your friend might want to try following the pediatrician's advice in this area.<br><b>References : </b><br> It is not normal for a 7-year-old to be having such explosive tantrums. Your friend needs to get a handle on this situation very quickly, because it will get worse (and more dangerous) when he gets older, and bigger.

The pediatrician could have been right about the hearing issue. A friend of mine had a child with a moderate hearing loss, who used to throw terrible tantrums. The child could hear, but not as well as he should. He was extremely frustrated about "missing" a lot of what was going on around him. Eventually he was fitted for hearing aids. He is a different child today – happy, cooperative, and doing well in school. Your friend might want to try following the pediatrician's advice in this area.
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]]> By: rachel http://www.child-behaviour-problems.com/child-behaviour-problems/exterme-behaviour-problem-in-child#comment-434 rachel Mon, 14 Jul 2008 08:18:58 +0000 http://www.child-behaviour-problems.com/child-behaviour-problems/exterme-behaviour-problem-in-child#comment-434 I would be taking my child to another paediatrition, a behavioural psychologist and looking at what he was eating and if anything was setting him off in his diet<br><b>References : </b><br> I would be taking my child to another paediatrition, a behavioural psychologist and looking at what he was eating and if anything was setting him off in his diet
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]]> By: Mozilla O http://www.child-behaviour-problems.com/child-behaviour-problems/exterme-behaviour-problem-in-child#comment-433 Mozilla O Mon, 14 Jul 2008 04:45:55 +0000 http://www.child-behaviour-problems.com/child-behaviour-problems/exterme-behaviour-problem-in-child#comment-433 Maybe this kid feels like nobody listens to him or his needs. Maybe he's feeling left out in activities in school or doesn't have very many close friends. I don't know much about parenting cause i'm only about 7 years from that age but i hope i helped<br><b>References : </b><br> Maybe this kid feels like nobody listens to him or his needs.
Maybe he's feeling left out in activities in school or doesn't have very many close friends. I don't know much about parenting cause i'm only about 7 years from that age but i hope i helped
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]]> By: versantly http://www.child-behaviour-problems.com/child-behaviour-problems/exterme-behaviour-problem-in-child#comment-432 versantly Mon, 14 Jul 2008 03:44:11 +0000 http://www.child-behaviour-problems.com/child-behaviour-problems/exterme-behaviour-problem-in-child#comment-432 this has everything to do with your friend's parenting techniques. consider asking her if she wants your help. you can suggest counseling and some quality time with her own child. sometimes, they are just begging for attention and ask for it via negative behavior.<br><b>References : </b><br> this has everything to do with your friend's parenting techniques. consider asking her if she wants your help. you can suggest counseling and some quality time with her own child. sometimes, they are just begging for attention and ask for it via negative behavior.
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